Paving the way for a smoother transition
Talking about aged-care options can be a sensitive topic for many families, especially when seniors express a desire to remain in their own homes. Open and honest discussions can lead to better understanding and support for their wishes.
Here are some thoughtful questions to prompt and guide this important conversation with your parents or senior relatives.
Starting the Conversation
Begin the conversation by creating a comfortable, relaxed environment in a setting where both you and your relative can talk openly.
Here are a few simple conversation starters to help ease into the discussion:
“I’ve been thinking a lot about how we can make sure you’re comfortable and safe at home as you age. Can we talk about it?”
“I know that home is where you feel most at ease. How do you feel about your living situation right now?”
“I want to make sure you have the support you need. Have you thought about what that might look like for you in the future?”
Questions to Guide the Discussion
As the conversation progresses, you can use the following questions to delve deeper into your relative’s preferences for aged living and care:
- What are your top priorities when it comes to living at home as you age?
This question allows them to express their needs – whether it’s independence, safety, or access to services. - Are there specific activities or routines that are important for you to maintain at home?
Understanding what activities they value can help tailor care options that accommodate their lifestyle. - How do you feel about having someone assist you with daily tasks if the need arises?
This prompt opens the door for discussing supportive care without undermining their desire for independence. - What concerns do you have about living at home as you get older?
Encouraging them to voice their worries can highlight areas where additional support might be necessary. - Have you heard about any services or resources that could help you remain in your home comfortably?
This question can prompt discussions about existing programs or community resources that they may find helpful.
Keeping the Discussion Going
Now that you have kicked off the conversation, use this opportunity to continue to research together, whether it’s home care services, meal delivery, or community activities that can enrich their lives.
Reassure your relative that exploring aged-care options doesn’t mean they have to move out of their home immediately. By engaging in these discussions now, you’re not only showing your love and support but also paving the way for a smoother transition when the time comes.
How Sovereign Community Nursing can help
We are experienced in guiding individuals and families as they navigate the complexities of Aged Living options with personalised planning to suit your unique needs and preferences. We work with our clients to determine:
- The individual’s functional needs to live at home
- The level of risk the person is comfortable living with
- The funding required to maintain an individual’s care and lifestyle at their chosen exposure to risk
Our expert guidance empowers you and your loved ones to make decisions that align with their lifestyle, wellbeing, and care requirements – including options to stay at home for longer.
